FRAGMENT III / AVAILABLE CAPACITY
A need before a flaw
A form may ask for attention because quiet feels like disappearance. It may withdraw because contact has become more than it can hold.
A familiar response can help, then overreach. Another capacity may be missing, unlearned, exhausted, or difficult to access.
The observer therefore asked: What capacity is available here?
Understanding the need did not cancel the consequence. A boundary could remain. A promise could be revised. A repair could still be necessary.
Ask about circumstances as well as behavior. The smallest useful change may be clearer instructions, accepted help, or rest.